The best relationship has its ups and downs. Commitments like work, school and family take up a lot of our time and energy. Sometimes your relationship can suffer and these same commitments have to be accounted for when you are trying to get your ex back. Managing your time is an important part of achieving your goals and one way to do this is compartmentalization. This is a way of organizing the various aspects of your life into separate units so you can give adequate time to them.

When you working on an assignment for work, concentrate on that, then move on to something else when you are done. Mixing your work with other tasks will make them all suffer. The Magic of Making Up wants you to focus a certain amount of your time and energy on getting your ex back. Obviously you cannot focus every waking hour on it or everything else will suffer. Set aside a realistic amount of time that you can devote to your ex.

The Magic of Making Up, an e-book selling for $39 on the Internet, seems to have helped tens of hundreds of people across the world mend their broken relationships, heal their marriages and bring back their exes.  It uses powerful psychological tricks to make the leaving lover think again and rekindle the feelings they once had.  There is nothing obvious about the advice author T. W. Jackson gives in the book and its associated products.  In fact, it might take some guts for anyone using the book to follow the advice to the letter, because it seems almost calculated to drive the ex further away.  Yet, it has worked for hundreds whose testimonials and reviews can be found on many sites.

Who is this Jackson person, and how did he come to be so versed in the ways of the human psyche?  Is he a psychiatrist or psychologist, or someone whose own private experiences taught him this knowledge the hard way?  No information seems to be available on Jackson’s love life and whether he used his system, but he certainly has no letters after his name.  He himself is quick to point out that he has no qualifications other than his own life experience.

A former “military brat,” Jackson joined the Navy at 17 and traveled the world with the forces, living in 11 countries as well as having had many homes across the U.S.  He says he feels as at home being with friends in Tokyo as when sharing a beer with buddies in Arkansas, and that this is the secret of his success.

Jackson says because he moved homes and schools so often from his earliest years he had to learn how to make friends easily and quickly to find out how people tick.  He brought this understanding to the point where he could influence people’s thinking and even their actions.  Friends brought him their problems, and he became adept at giving advice that would make their lives easier.  Whatever their racial background or class, he found he could relate to them and find the answer to their problems.  Soon he felt “like the male version of Dear Abby,” as friends and colleagues came to him with all their relationship problems.  As the divorce rate in the armed forces is higher than that of civilians, he got plenty of practice at marriage guidance and was able to develop his own system for patching up broken romances.

Thousands of people across the world have used Jackson’s system and found it worked for them, as many reviews, testimonials and blogs across the Internet will tell you.  Jackson himself shares e-mail messages on his site, with names removed, proving that he has helped many.